Koda Kumi 倖田來未 latest song ~TABOO

Another new song of koda Kumi ^^ I love this song , is really nice.

The word Taboo is proscribed by society as improper or unacceptable: taboo words in the dictionary.com.

I guess that the meaning of how MTV was being shown.
I really agreed cause the social in Singapore have too much of the "Taboo" with the word - sex.
During school days, when our teacher give us lecture regarding safe sex, they got tongue tight when asked them more detail of it.

When the young generation got trouble due to early sex, parent will start to blame of internet and comic rated books teaching them to be bad.

Forgetting that the more they tried to forbidden the more they don’t understand and hoping to try and let those who might really want to cheat them get it.

Being a woman is hard but must always remember:

1. Innocent in appearance but not in mind.
2. Sexy in body but clever in brain.
3. Stay single with pride and not as a third party ,cause the winning party is never yourself, but the winning trophey you are holding now.

Anyway enjoy this great song!!

Autumn at my office...

The little “Autumn” road where my office is located now..
A place where I used to think so old and outcast when I first came in yet has such a beautiful moment which my old working places couldnt see....

From the moment I touch my camera , and played with it , I learn something.

Even the smallest thing can be beautiful , however to discover it , is time and explore.^^

壅正 有一名言：站着借钱,蹲着还钱

Yong Zhen (the king of Qing from china) once said: Stand to loan, squat to return
It means when you loan money, you are standing but to beg for return you have to squat down to ask for the loan to be return.
I have been remembering this sentence so deep and hard.
Every time whenever asking loan, people will say ok for anything, they will say how urgent they need and you are the only savour they can find.
Today , my day was totally spoil by an employee who say this to me in phone that if he know that I , as an HR will deduct his loan as per time of his salary he will not loan in the beginning.
For hell, I never asked or beg him to loan in the beginning, beside I not working at Ah Long Pte Ltd.
He requested to deduct per month, but from the record if I do that it will take at least 8 month to finish the deduction. Yet he says 8 month is short.
Money depreciated as time goes by so if the debtors don’t paid in time and drag as long as possible. He/she can use the money to put in bank to gain interest while the person who give the loan WITHOUT INTEREST will end up loss the gain of interest and thus get nothing in the end and with a high risk of maybe if that person don’t worked no more , he can just walk away…
LOAN = HIGH RISK, NO RETURN
However is not the problem of time value or is not matter of not being kind enough to help the employee but is the way how the employee reacts and responded.
What the hell, when did I asked him to loan? Beside I put my contract clear and easy to read that all deduction is per time basic yet he say he too rushes so didn’t read.
No time to read what is the terms and conditions with only around 3 short sentences?
I disagreed to be per month but I allow 2 times per month instead of 4 times with the fact that contact is clear and easy to read, and all the employee should understand that company have their own polices to maintain and the fact that he should not be irresponsibly said that if he had know he won’t loan.
Our company especially my dear boss has been out of good will to help employee who really need help, yet in the end when I working as HR deduct their salaries to maintain the polices to loan and return always get the cold words and think as a blood sucker in the company.
If they think I am blood sucker , I agreed in my way , with the fact I hate people thinks that owning money is a right thing to do and worst to show faces to the person who once help him/her when need to.

Dont expected guys to help you if u are not pretty....

Today is so super Sian…

After office hour, I spend my time to wash the car so clean and nice before going to school.

I guess I was tired; it was Friday evening especially after the entire ting dong jobs and stress.

I make a huge wrong turn and cause myself to hit towards the high kerb and cause the whole entire right front wheel to burst.

At 1st,I didnt notice it was the wheel which burst, with that huge band sound, the 1st thing I tot was that I crushed my car front , so I stop at the roadside to check until I saw the brust wheel which was also a bit lucky cause at least the wheel was able to support itself until the car was stopped before it went totally unmovable ,rather than in the middle of cross-road and the accident was at the dead point which car from other side might not be able to see and came crashing with high speed if didn’t notice my car.

Anyway I made a call to my dad, yet he handphone is totally unreachable, so I call my uncle to help, he came but found that the things in my car cannot be used to change the wheels, so no choice, I call the emergency hotline to ask the technician to change the wheel, but he say he need 45 min to 1hr to come over.
In the end no choice, I sit and wait for the technician to come after my uncle have left, the worst part was not the waiting time, is that lucky I was not in the car, I sit outside looking at the direction which the car will be coming and where I placed the triangle sign (which my uncle gave me), and all the driver should know that it means that accident or breakdown car ahead..
Without helping hand and the sky is turning dark, I feel is fine, but the worst thing is that these driver seem not to understand the meaning of triangle sign (or I put too far from my car which is about 15 footsteps away), they just avoided the triangle sign yet drive so fast back to the lane towards my car and nearly hit my car, and I was sitting at the back of the car looking these cars “ RUSHING” towards me. Not to mention , they drive in high speed like at least 80km/h.

(The photo was taken from the position where I am sitting at my car boot , and where it shown the trangle sign which i placed it at the beginning , later I realised these driver CAN'T see , so I placed it in the middle of the road which no helped either )

Of cause, they avoided with nearly hit me and the car if not I won’t be able to write my blog.

And worst part was not only one car , well my mum told me cause I was not pretty enough and I didn’t wear too sexy that day, yes I guess is true , cause no one ( and mostly is guys “which” I looked at them ) seem to offer to help only looked. Oh , one guy did stop , but he didn’t stop to offer help but to ask me for directions , shit , like I still got the mood to tell him , but I still did in the end and he just drive off without asking either, guess I too kind hearted.

The guys might said cause I didn’t asked, but I did wave at the cars ( also because I need to tell them I am here , please don’t hit my poor car in case they are blind enough not to see my car which is red color and double signal is on ), yet still they just looked and nearly hit lor.

In the end, lucky my uncle turned back with one small round orange machine that can lift the car up and changed the replacement wheel before the technician came which I think he take more than what he told me. (I think he is lost)
I have to use my handphone light to let them see the wheel while changing as the place is really dark and frankly speaking, the location is only forest on my left and road.

In the meantime , also to run to the triangle sign to wave at the cars again in case is too dark and the driver can't see that we are changing wheel in middle of road....

I still went to school (which is very late) driving the car with the replacement wheel cause I didn’t want to miss any class.
But one thing I learn from the car accident, girls who are not pretty enough in Singapore can learn to be independent easily.

At least I know I just need to call the technician or someone familiar whenever the car breakdown , guys in Singapore , if you are not pretty enough don’t expect they will came down automatic from their car to help you , they don’t come “ RUSHING” to you and nearly hit you is good enough.

Oh, one thing, also to prepare a touchlight in the car as it really come in handy, as for the triangle sign , I realised it won't worked for SOME singaporean driver cause they are just
TOO BLIND OR STUPID TO UNDERSTAND THE MEANING. so don't ever think that putting the triangle sign and sit in the car with air-con to wait for help is the correct way , cause you never know the bigger accident is just behind you.

Is always wise to go out of your car to watch the coming traffic , and react/respond whenever you see something wrong from them

But still , I like to thanks Uncle How and Uncle Ong for the help during the incident. Thank you!! ^^

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The song that touch my heart of how love is to me....

A friend asks me: do you think his or her relationship will last?
I told her, as a friend, I hope the love stories which belong to all my friend will be a happy ending and I always give them with my full blessing.

As an outsider, I choose to know that everything have an ending.
Just like a movie show, no matter how touching a movie can be, the movie will still end, the audiences will still leave their seats and forgotten the scenes of the movie when times goes by.

Some may say I just think too much or too negative.

I’m neither of it. I just hope to be an audience that looking forward to watch an happy ending movie...

This was my fav song ( now still is ) M by Ayumi Hamasaki.

The translated lyric are just below the MTV itself , this was one of the best song I love and somehow feel that suit my feeling with how I look at love bah...



M by Ayumi Hamasaki Chinese Translation

浜崎あゆみ - M
作詞：浜崎あゆみ
作曲：CREA　編曲：HΛL

MARIA 為了心中所愛的人
而受傷的每一個人...

環顧四週
人人皆倉皇
急著趕往何方

今年在不知不覺裡
身邊又見
冬意來訪

今日在這城市的某個角落
將有兩個人 眼神交會邂詬
激情的拉開序幕

但是這一切
終將面臨
結束的一天

今日在這城市的某個角落
又將有兩人 選擇離別的路
靜靜的拉下終幕

MARIA 為了心中所愛的人
有時 會感覺分外的孤獨
但是 就因為那所愛的人
最後一切才得以充實

MARIA 為了心中所愛的人
有時 會受傷的很深很深
但是 就因為那所愛的人
最後一切才得以平撫

MARIA 每個人都在哭
但心中卻渴望相信
於是才要祈禱
祈禱這是最後一段愛情

開始突來的沒有理由
結束卻總是有它的藉口...

M by Ayumi Hamasaki English Translation

Maria for the love ones
and got hurt

Look around
Everyone was so busy and hurry
rushing to a place of unknown

Again , this year has reach the sign of winter.

Today, somewhere in the city, two person will be meet
and fall in love
the passion of curtains started to open.

But still , everything will meet an ending one day

Today, somewhere in the city , two person will be choosing
the road of ending
the curtains quietly closed down

Maria for the love ones
Sometime the feeling of loneliness is so obvious
but because of them
these needs will still be filled in the end

Maria for the love ones
Sometime the feeling of hurt will be very deep
but because of them
these will be healed in the end

Maria Everyone is crying
But deep in heart , they still wish to believe
and that why they pray
praying that this will be the final love

Beginning come at random
Yet ending always have its reasons…………